Anyone know where to get good dating traffic

So I’ve been messing around with different ways to drive traffic to some dating offers, and I keep hitting the same question: where do you actually find dating traffic that works and isn’t just junk clicks? I know it sounds simple, but the reality is trickier than I thought.

When I first started looking into this, I assumed buying traffic was just a numbers game. Like, the more people you send to a page, the higher the chance of conversions. Turns out, that’s not how it works at all. With dating offers especially, you can throw hundreds of random visitors at a landing page and end up with zero signups if those people aren’t the right audience. That’s where the whole idea of “targeted” dating traffic started to make sense for me.

The pain point for me was this: most “traffic sellers” out there promise the world, but a lot of it feels either bot-driven, recycled, or just plain irrelevant. I’ve paid for traffic packages in the past, only to watch analytics show tons of visitors with no clicks past the landing page. That was frustrating, because technically the traffic was real, but it didn’t convert. And if it doesn’t convert, what’s the point?

I talked to a couple of folks in forums (Reddit-style threads and a few affiliate groups), and the general consensus was that buying traffic for dating can work—but only if it’s coming from sources that actually understand the dating niche. Random popunders or “general” traffic bundles just don’t cut it. For example, one experiment I tried was with a push notification network. I thought the quick clicks would help, but honestly, most people swiped it away without a second thought. It barely gave me any useful data.

What I did notice, though, is that targeting makes all the difference. Like if the traffic is coming from people who already show interest in dating apps, singles communities, or even lifestyle pages, the engagement is way higher. The conversions aren’t crazy overnight money, but they’re steady. One trick I found useful was testing smaller chunks of traffic first, instead of going all in. That way, if it’s trash, you’re not burning your whole budget.

Another thing worth mentioning is expectations. Some people think buying traffic means instant signups or sales. In reality, you still need a decent landing page, some patience, and a bit of testing. The traffic alone won’t save you if your page doesn’t grab attention. I learned this the hard way. My first dating funnel was too generic—looked like every other landing page out there. Even with targeted traffic, people bounced. When I tweaked it to feel more conversational and less like an obvious ad, conversions improved.

As for where to actually buy targeted dating traffic that converts, there are a few discussions floating around, and I stumbled across this resource that breaks it down pretty clearly: Buy Targeted Dating Traffic That Converts. It’s not a magic bullet, but it at least points you in the right direction if you’re tired of wasting money on random clicks.

At the end of the day, I’d say the biggest lesson I learned is that not all traffic is created equal. “Dating traffic” isn’t just one big bucket—it’s different depending on the audience, the region, and even the type of dating niche (casual, serious, niche communities, etc.). If you can align those factors with your offer, your chances of seeing conversions go way up.

If you’re curious about testing, my advice would be:

• Start small with any traffic source so you can measure results.

• Pay attention to engagement, not just the visitor count.

• Make sure your landing page actually feels authentic to the type of people you’re targeting.

• Don’t fall for big promises of “guaranteed” signups—it’s usually too good to be true.

I’m still figuring it out myself, but I do feel like I’ve cut out a lot of trial and error by learning from other people’s stories and sharing my own experiments. If anyone else has tried different networks or sources, I’d love to hear how it worked out for you. Sometimes these forum-style chats save a lot more money than endless testing.